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2015

As the World Goes to Pot

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If things at street level keep proceeding on their present course, we’ll soon be raising our kids in a world that sees smoking pot on par with having a glass of wine with dinner.

 

When you add to this the fact that …

 

  • some of the most popular music videos now leave absolutely nothing to the imagination,
  • the F-Word has moved from a bomb that’s dropped into a conversation to an adjective that clarifies whatever noun might follow,
  • walking our kids through a typical mall—with all of its visual images of beautiful people in their underwear—is the equivalent of handing your child an adult magazine to read …

 

… it’s no wonder parents are truly frightened about how to raise up their children in the midst of these challenging changes.

 

Although this may seem like a brave new world gone to pot (pun intended), there’s nothing new about what we’re contending with—it’s just new to us. When the Apostle Paul embedded the gospel in places like Corinth, Ephesus, Athens, and Rome, the parents in those towns were raising their children in an environment that was almost a 100% contradiction to the values behind the gospel they had embraced. A cheapened view of sex was the coin of the realm. Walking your children to school, with all of the statuary you’d pass, was like detouring through a sex shop. And the standard way of communicating bounced back and forth between the profane and the obscene.

 

It’s interesting how these early Christians viewed these challenges compared to how our generation does. I often hear laments about what we’ve lost and anger (sometimes with condemnation attached) towards what we’ve gained. A typical response is to react with laws that compel others to adhere to our Christian values or to pull up stakes and flee to some isolated enclave filled with fellow Christian believers. Not only do none of these responses actually work to solve our parenting problems, but they’re the antithesis of what our early church-founding parents did.

 

First century Christian parents simply let the transforming work of the gospel—the kindness, generosity, humility, servant attitude, and forgiving spirit—pour from their hearts to the people around them; people the gospel had suddenly compelled them to love. Rather than pull up stakes and flee to spiritual safe havens, they said, “Let’s turn God’s light of compassion on in the midst of all of this.” In the process, they gave their children the best road map for navigating the antagonistic culture around them and the greatest protection from its toxic influence.

 

They took God at his word when he said, “Greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world” (1 John 4:4). They took Jesus’ urging seriously to “let your light so shine before men that they see your good works and glorify your father who is in heaven” (Matthew 5:16).

 

For a long time, the Christian community—at least the one in America—has enjoyed the luxury of raising their kids in a culture that often aligned with its values. But where did that get us? I’d like to suggest that a morally comfortable environment doesn’t incline us toward a passionate frontlines faith. I can think of safer times to be raising Christian kids but I can’t think of a better one than what we have right now. Who knows, but that the best kids ever raised are going to come from parents who finally trust God enough to believe that “where sin abounds, grace does much more abound” (Romans 5:20).

 

{Originally published in 2014}

Tim Kimmel

Dr. Tim Kimmel is one of America’s top advocates speaking for the family today. Over the past three decades, Tim has spoken to millions of people throughout the country through the Raising Truly Great Kids Conference, Family Life Weekend to Remember Conferences, radio and TV. In addition to speaking, he has authored several books including best seller Little House On The Freeway and award winning Grace Based Parenting.

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